well this weekend my mom biffed it down two stairs, or i may say up two stairs..broke her wrist, hip and knee...fabulous huh? surgery was yesterday and went splendidly...
unfortunately, since they do not consider tia to be an able body to watch her, physical therapy will have to be done in a nursing home...so just about 10 weeks out of commission...
but here lies my problem, well not problem, but something for which i seek a solution...
tia is 88 and she is my grandma's sister...she lives with my mom cos she used to live with her daughter but she passed away from leukemia years back...she tried staying with claras husband and he had no problem..tho then came the new wife...she had no problem either but tia did...
hence the move up here...
now tia is alone and i make sure to visit her every time i go up to see my mom...she has her independence with cooking cleaning and the whole 9...but she is 88...now my mom leant her van to some chick who had to take tia to her doc appt, and promised she would visit tia at least 3 times a day...yeah she took her to her appt on monday..hasnt been there since...so my mom is recalling van rights so that i may drive back and forth without worry of breaking my mother in laws car...good cos i said that shit from the get go that the woman was not going to do such a thing...
i call tia constantly, i mean she is the only link to my grandma besides my mom...i was a teenage bitch to my grandma and wish i could take it back...so i am compensating with tia...but i love this woman...
it pains me that they told her to go to a home in miami...her grandkids visited once in 5 years and it was only cos she was going from jersey to florida and she could stop in nc...but her grandson? never...and this boy is balling with money...
wtf does hel do??? i can send mai for the weekend but mai traps herself in my moms bedroom playing games and watching tv...how many 11 year olds want to watch over an older person? not me when i was her age...i mean peanut is a completely different gig...he is a baby...and tia is an independent woman who is just to high in age to drive herself to med appts, or pick up meds(mind you she is in very good health, just meds for i guess her heart, but that keeps it in check)or even go to the dang supermarket...
how can people be like that? well i am more content and have more respect for my oldest brother cos he lives very close, and he is calling tia too, but he has stepped up with mom big time..last time last year when my mom had her knee operated on(yes same knee broken..my mom said she went through all that work last year for nothing)anyhow, he was there but not but his wifes family was in a mess as far as people passing away and him missing so much skool(he is a teacher)...but none the less he has stepped on up...in my moms case which is at least one thing off my back...
but dearest tia...
ugh
yesterday i got offered a job at the local gas house which is like a drive thru gas station with cigarettes,lighters, gum, blunt tubes...lol...lets see those hours...
ok, k you already know all this so if it is you then i am just tooo mad at that bitch who took my mom's van and promised the world but gave her shit...rights revoked...
ok thats it..
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