moms disaster

well this weekend my mom biffed it down two stairs, or i may say up two stairs..broke her wrist, hip and knee...fabulous huh? surgery was yesterday and went splendidly...
unfortunately, since they do not consider tia to be an able body to watch her, physical therapy will have to be done in a nursing home...so just about 10 weeks out of commission...
but here lies my problem, well not problem, but something for which i seek a solution...
tia is 88 and she is my grandma's sister...she lives with my mom cos she used to live with her daughter but she passed away from leukemia years back...she tried staying with claras husband and he had no problem..tho then came the new wife...she had no problem either but tia did...
hence the move up here...
now tia is alone and i make sure to visit her every time i go up to see my mom...she has her independence with cooking cleaning and the whole 9...but she is 88...now my mom leant her van to some chick who had to take tia to her doc appt, and promised she would visit tia at least 3 times a day...yeah she took her to her appt on monday..hasnt been there since...so my mom is recalling van rights so that i may drive back and forth without worry of breaking my mother in laws car...good cos i said that shit from the get go that the woman was not going to do such a thing...
i call tia constantly, i mean she is the only link to my grandma besides my mom...i was a teenage bitch to my grandma and wish i could take it back...so i am compensating with tia...but i love this woman...
it pains me that they told her to go to a home in miami...her grandkids visited once in 5 years and it was only cos she was going from jersey to florida and she could stop in nc...but her grandson? never...and this boy is balling with money...
wtf does hel do??? i can send mai for the weekend but mai traps herself in my moms bedroom playing games and watching tv...how many 11 year olds want to watch over an older person? not me when i was her age...i mean peanut is a completely different gig...he is a baby...and tia is an independent woman who is just to high in age to drive herself to med appts, or pick up meds(mind you she is in very good health, just meds for i guess her heart, but that keeps it in check)or even go to the dang supermarket...
how can people be like that? well i am more content and have more respect for my oldest brother cos he lives very close, and he is calling tia too, but he has stepped up with mom big time..last time last year when my mom had her knee operated on(yes same knee broken..my mom said she went through all that work last year for nothing)anyhow, he was there but not but his wifes family was in a mess as far as people passing away and him missing so much skool(he is a teacher)...but none the less he has stepped on up...in my moms case which is at least one thing off my back...
but dearest tia...
ugh

yesterday i got offered a job at the local gas house which is like a drive thru gas station with cigarettes,lighters, gum, blunt tubes...lol...lets see those hours...
ok, k you already know all this so if it is you then i am just tooo mad at that bitch who took my mom's van and promised the world but gave her shit...rights revoked...
ok thats it..

september already?

well it has been quite a bit...i have a few things to say...well more than a few things..
mai started the 6th grade, peanut turned one...time flippin flies...had a job at a chiropractic office which started out as a collections rep, then the doctor(if i can even call her that) gave me a four hour crash course on the system, and then said ok, its ur turn...ok by that point, all numbers looked chinese...so she was kinda ill that i did not catch on in those four flippin hours...so she said that i could be the "director of marketing" so i start giving ideas on how we can get people in, and her response was sounds great, but make the phone calls from the leads...wait, that sounds like telemarketing...
then thank the good Lord that the halloween store posted their ad on craigslist...worked there, i want to say like 3 years ago or so...they took me on without even saying a peep...we have a store at thruway which we have been setting up..then today we had a soft opening...not bad, i have to say...
plus we are yet to open the hanes mall locale, but being it is smaller, we are focusing on the big one...
but i have spent time over in hanes...not much, because it is just repetitive costumes and such from the other store being put in whatever spot they fit in...i hope i get to stay @ the thruway store, but they are considering me for a floater back and forth where they may need someone with"experience" this is only my second season...lol..
what else??? not much,well really a lot, but being i have been suffering from a horrid stomach bug since sunday i am clustered...i havent been able to hold down food for nothing...chuck was like take a pregnancy test, to which i replied, my tubes are cut, tied and burned...but regardless he was flippin until i reminded him my monthly friend was only a week ago...tmi? probably but since no one reads this anyway, this is whatever i want to write...
oh another exciting thing is that ziggys is reopening...i am hoping i can get in touch with jay so he can hook me up with some bands to interview...he never sold out like all the pr people from the record labels...lol...not really laughing more like weeping out loud...
well charley fell asleep on mai and i have to do the transference from her to the bedroom, without waking him...but he is definitely chuck and mine cos he sleeps like there is nothing else in the world...how i wish i could sleep like that...i do sleep deep but wake up like 100 times a night, thinking i am late for mai's skool...then if i take a nap b4 work, same shit, thinking i will be late...i have a bottle of tylenol p.m. but i dont like being stupid clustered in the morning...
ok
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